Irresistible Community
Builders Presents: Caring
for our Souls at Culver Way Ecovillage
by Tom & Carol Braford
In his book, Care of The Soul, psychotherapist and theologian
Thomas Moore says that many of us in society today lack
a sufficiently deep experience of community. We try to
fill this need with frivolous socialization and are left
empty because what we want and need is an opportunity
to really know a diversity of people on the level of soul.
There is no guarantee that joining a cohousing community
in and of itself will enrich our souls, but the structure
for a deeper experience of community is there if we
are willing to take advantage of it.
The opportunity to be intimately involved in the lives
of a variety of unique individuals is there if we choose
to immerse ourselves in the life of our cohousing community
and the larger community that surrounds us. Having community
in our lives is not a passive activity, but then neither
is caring for our souls.
And as Thomas Moore points out, community and interaction
with others is but one side of the coin. We also need
reflection and solitude.
Again, cohousing is not a panacea, but it is structured
to allow for a balance between privacy and community
with a design for community that allows for many gradations
in between, including private residences complete with
some private outdoor space with nature close at hand,
semi-private gathering nodes and a mixture of active
and shared common areas such as a common dining room,
kitchen, laundry, game room, woodshop, crafts room,
library, yoga and meditation room and little nooks and
getaways throughout the site.
Of course, the availability of these facilities and
structures is not enough to ensure well cared for souls,
but together and individually we can proactively choose
the collective and individual paths that best suit our
individual and collective eccentricities.
At Culver Way Ecovillage we are looking for a few good
people who are not carbon copies of ourselves. We want
and need variety and, as Thomas Moore points out, so
do you.
Join us for an orientation and tour on Saturday, July
12 or 26, at 11:00, followed by a potluck lunch. You
are welcome to come early either day and/or stay late
and pitch in on the garden workday with the Green Beings
CSA.
Contacts: www.CulverWayCohousing.com,
braford@sbcglobal.net
or 314-534-4780. Green Beings CSA: www.greenbeings-stl.com
or greenbeings@gmail.com.
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